…to be Femme or to be Butch?

  There are always thoughts that cross our minds throughout the day or we are simply touched by a comment or new person we meet. Sometimes, these thoughts or unexpected connections with strangers, trigger a memory or old perceptions we once had.  Recently, I met up for coffee with a new friend in which we

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A Jealous Nature

Are you a self-proclaimed jealous person? A lot of people know they’re jealous and admit it when they speak to potential partners or lovers. People act out in jealousy constantly and consistently in the gay community. My question is why? Who said that it was ok to be jealous? Allow me to explain. Jealousy is

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Feliz Cumpleanos Gabito: Garcia Marquez outted from my inspirations.

Feliz Cumpleaños Gabito. It was like coming out of my shoe box all over again. Shedding a skin that needs to renovate or die. Growing up in solace in my four-purple-walls of a room in La Colonia Miguel Hidalgo usually would make my mind run wild and fantasize on writing books. I was 12 when Continue Reading</a

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Not A Cookie Cutter Queer

    “How out are you?”  Was her question to me?  My initial reaction was what the fuck?  Really?  Are you seriously asking me that shit!?  She continued with “are you not okay with PDA (public displays of affection)?”  “Are you scared?”  “Are you ashamed?”  Let me just say these inquiries were being directed at Continue Reading

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Last nite a DJ saved my life::Just how political can you be in the gay club scene?

I spied an interesting conversation on my Facebook sidebar, going on between my friend Alex aka Strapped Partys and Cynthia Moghanian aka DJ Cynful. I had already known the story of Alex being kicked out of the women’s restroom at the Geisha House even after she showed the security guard her ID and sex listed Continue Reading

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